while trying not to stare at the breasts of the woman behind the coffee shop counter, he remembered a slightly chauvenistic friend from Door County, who believed without shame that women wearing sexy clothes wanted men to scope them out. Pete remembered this and thought, well, maybe . . . for some women, sure, and some men, but what about this girl in front of me with the low neck shirt three sizes too small for her? Is it just a shirt, or am I going to inadvertantly offend her if I don't look at her breasts? He started sweating.